Role Playing Etiquette
Part 1. General Section
Role Playing is about EVERYONE
You don’t RP only for yourself; you RP for everyone. Some of the most fulfilling RP moments come from allowing your character to be a vehicle for another character’s development. This doesn’t mean you have to make your character act in ways that are out of character for them, it means you have to co-operate with your fellow members. You can’t expect to be the centre of attention in every thread.
What happens in character stays in character
It might seem obvious, but don’t get yourself confused with your character. It’s easier to do than you think.
Be aware of your emotions when you’re RPing. If you are hurt, upset or angry, you need to analyse what made you feel that way. Was it the way another member treated you, or something their character did to yours in a thread? If it was the latter, you are getting yourself confused with your character.
YOURSELF | your character
Don’t step over the line.
We’re on ur forumz, reading ur threadz
You do not know who is reading your writing. You don’t know what their reaction to your writing is going to be. If you elicit a negative enough reaction, you are going to have one less person to RP with.
When you decide to make your character interesting, consider whether your idea really is interesting or whether you are just repeating a tired trope.
Additionally, if your idea is based in a real life circumstance such as being underprivileged, or part of a different race, or something similar, you will need to research it so that you don’t sound like you are treating the associated issues in a superficial and inconsiderate manner.
Joining threads
This is very easy on DMRP, because every thread is open, meaning potentially, you can join any thread.
However, just because you can join, doesn’t mean you should. Before you join a thread, consider some things first:
What was happening before you got there?
Does your character have a reason to be in that place at that time?
Are your character and your ideas going to benefit the plot of the thread?
Why do you, the player, want to join?
When joining threads you must also read the thread properly and make sure your posts conform to what has already been established. It is no use saying that your character walked into the courtyard if the thread is taking place near the greenhouses.
Post order
When there are many players in one thread, there are often problems with members posting back and forth, or members needing to catch up with everyone else. For the most part, this can be overcome with the simple consideration of letting a few people post before you post again. There is also the option of splitting off and using another thread if you really must post back-to-back.
Leaving, hiatus and reminding people about threads
If you’re going to be away from the site for a time, it is polite to either remove your characters from their threads, or negotiate with your RP partners how to handle your absence. Will they be allowed to godmod you in the last thread you were in or will they simply act like your character left the area?
If, on the other hand, you’re the one who’s left in a thread that someone else seems to have forgotten about, it’s okay to PM them a reminder about it. It’s not okay to continually badger people asking them to post.
Part 2. Specific Do's and Don't's
Blanket Statements
They're easy to make, but really not all that popular, so watch out before you make bold statements! '
Everyone loves my character' is a comment that will have many of your co-members running in the other direction. For one, not every other character will love yours. Second, who are you to decide for someone elses character who they like and dislike? Of course from time to time, your character might
feel emotions that come close to blanket statements, and there is nothing wrong with that! Keep a firm grasp on emotions that your character feels, and statements that force other characters to think or do something.
Insufferable know it all
Another easy trap, and there's several sections to
knowing too much that we'll highlight:
- What you know..
Your character might not! Any information that you know about other players, their plans, the dark secrets of their character.. you can read a lot about other characters in their character card topic and by reading other threads they are in. However, it's definitely a no-go to use this information for your character if there is no possible way for them to know about these things.
- Magic too advance
This one kind of speaks for itself. There will be plenty magic your character doesn't know, couldn't know but would want to know when the situation suddenly lands them in a position where knowing spell X or Y would save their day. It's not funny, witty or cute to cast spells and brew potions your character can't possibly know yet. So operate within the scope of what is reasonable. If the school is attacked by Dementors, your 1st year would be wetting their pants trying to get away as fast and far away as possible, and not stand their ground to cast a beautiful patronus.
- Walking Encyclopedia
If you've read all the Harry Potter books, think back to those first chapters of that very first book. Everyone hated Hermione and couldn't stand her knowing everything and bouncing up and down to answer professors in class. Yet somehow, for whatever reason people seem to think this is okay behavior in roleplay. It's not! Make mistakes, confess that you don't know the answer, get confused and mix things up!
Roleplaying is serious business and Internet Drama
If you think the above statement is true, you're opening yourself up to be trampled by a wild herd of drama llamas. Never assume anything based on what a character does, be inquisitive and verify if what you thought is actually true. Communication is key, and don't be afraid to ask or make it known you don't like something! If we don't know how you feel, we can't react on it either. A lot of petty drama and silent grudges could be prevented if people would just be honest about things. Say what you want, it's simple as that. People aren't mind readers, and what you type can easily be misread especially if you expect people to read between the lines.
Example: you're in a thread with 4 other people and your post has been ignored by three people that posted after you. Did they do this on purpose? Do they hate you? Would they wish your character to drop out of the topic? Most likely not, so don't feel like they're out to get you either. PM your fellow players, point out politely that you said something that was ignored, and give an idea about how to fix this to your satisfaction.